Bankruptcy, Separation, and hope?
admin | Mar 31, 2010 | Comments 2
Recently my wife and I chose to separate, we have been fighting too much and have 3 small children. I am currently going through a personal bankruptcy, I really want things to work out but all my wife talks about are the bills that need to be paid on her end, and I haven’t even found a job so far, also she has the truck in her name and I want to make rid of it, but she is holding me to it in a sense, saying we made a financial choice collectively, you see we are currently legally separated, so they the creditors will not come after her unless we split. She recently just finished a the boards 13 bankruptcy and does not want to lose her foot hold with the Credit Cards, but she is just burying herself.
I want to use this opportunity as a fresh initiation, but aptly out the gates I feel like l have a gun to my head saying make the payments to me or split, but I want to keep my family tree.
Aid
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1. GET RID OF THE CREDIT CARDS..that’s probably the reason for all the debt.
Money is often the evil for split. I don’t know you and your wife should reckon about consulting financial planner to better manage your money. Which means chopping off some expenses..
My husband and I have lived by this rule..If we have to charge it, we can’t afford it. If there’s a lofty buy we want to make we save up for it…if the money isn’t immediately available. If I had to guess…you guys fought about money alot. Work on that issue…stop spending unneccessary money, start to plot to make back on your feet.
I hope you find a job soon!
if you two arent living collectively then its over and you need to go on man up I despise to say but for your kids you need to go o n for them some times to be a better parents you need to not be collectively for the kids they shouldnt see a household with parents fighting or not talking to each other the kids are the most valuable thing so reckon of them not of your selfs.